Do you ever wonder about the people your surrounded by? How do you know who is really for you and who is not? I usually encourage people to sit out on the side lines and pay attention to people assess how they act/react with others. I like to sit out for a while and just monitor behavior and not say too much….basically act as an observer. Why you may ask? It’s because what you learn when your not doing the talking and simply being quiet I always say or think “well if they can do it to them….they can do that to me too”.
You know who your people or small group is because you don’t have to spend all your time and energy chasing them. These are the people who are always there for you , when your up and more importantly when you are down. These are the people you can tell the your secrets to, without fear of being judged, they understand where your coming from and listen without speaking or without offering a hundred ways of how they would do it better or differently. These are the ones who will cheer you on and encourage you in public and in private. Take inventory of your surroundings not everyone is for you and if you find a handful in your life time know that you are truly blessed!