I remember hearing a phrase…. sometimes it’s better to hold the water in your mouth. It took me a while to figure this out and basically it boils down to watch your mouth and think before you speak. There is a biblical verse that says any tongue the rises against you God will condemn. I think our initial response is yessss that”s great!!! Well if that’s true that also means anytime your tongue rises against someone the same applies to you. So before we get too excited about being vindicated proceed with caution and don’t forget to hold the water in your mouth before you respond too quickly.